Surprised?
I was surprised, even I was shocked by this idea
The husband is always out of business, in other words, it is the child's education problem: the school is in charge of academic education, and the family can only provide some assistance; most of the education in life can only be carried out by the family, let alone the child's psychological education, sex education, etc., etc. can only be taught by the family.
This is also due to the social environment
It's really...unspeakable helpless
Another thing is that my son saw my naked body without any evil thoughts, and he was afraid that his feelings of fear and admiration would occupy the main idea.
My figure is not bad. I'm slightly more than a pound or two more weight than Lao Fangqian who didn't marry. I also do yoga regularly every few days to maintain my body shape and figure.
Marrying Lao Fang for more than ten years, let him treat me like a little puppy. The biggest reason is that Lao Fang loves me, I also love Lao Fang. I prefer to keep my body and body in the state before getting married. The so-called: A woman is to please herself, and to keep the most beautiful body shape in his eyes for her husband and her appearance and skin. It is also a way for couples to maintain sex and affection.
Ahem, it's off topic
Until now, how to educate my son has become a question I think about
Judging from the education I have been to my son these days, my son is obviously very ignorant about human physiology.
Fortunately, I was wise and asked my son to go to the library and came back. My son was obviously much more rational. When I saw my sleeping naked body, I didn't touch my feet randomly. The thoughts of admiration and fear obviously allowed my son to control his reason.
This is a good start
But... my son's age and experience are obviously not up to the way he can
My son also understands the knowledge in the book and the knowledge about physiology in the textbook, but he is also very ignorant. This is the problem.
It seems that this problem can be compensated slowly in about half a year, but it is not something I, a mother, can help him make up for.
Well, this is the only way to educate my son at this stage
I just hope my son can understand and understand the knowledge I have taught him in the past six months
After thinking through it, I no longer struggled. It was almost four in the morning when I saw the wall clock. Why didn’t I find myself not sleepy at this time?
I smiled and shook my head, quietly went upstairs and went back to the master bedroom, lay back on the bed, empty my brain and let myself fall asleep
A few days later, my son found me and talked about the strange things that happened to him. He always didn't want to tell his parents about the strange feelings that happened to him. He even didn't concentrate on his work. He always kept the light on when he fell asleep at night. When he didn't do anything, he always grabbed his hair and stared at him in a daze. He always disagreed with what his parents said. He always wanted to verify it himself.
Before my son looked for me, I honestly held the pile of books I got back from the company that day and made up for the reason. I broke it apart and told my son clearly and frankly. My son naturally realized that he understood and said: Mom, thank you for explaining the weirdness of me to me. I will learn to control my emotions and control my behavior. The words were like when I was a child. My son hugged my head and snuggled in my arms.
Naturally, I didn't think about anything else, and reached out to stroke my son's head and said: You are my son, the flesh that fell from my body after ten months of pregnancy. Think about it, which mother doesn't want to give her children the best? Have other ideas. Now you are serious about studying hard.
My son nodded and I continued: You should know that your current living and learning environment will be much better than your dad and you, and it will be much better than your grandparents and parents-in-law at that time. If you don’t cherish such a good and peaceful environment and study, that is a waste of your life. Although your living conditions are relatively good now, it is also inseparable from your hard work and study back then.
My son was completely speechless, and the mother and I spent an afternoon together
When my son let go of my body, my son told me red: Mom, I understand the meaning of morning erection, nocturnal emission, endometrium, and menstruation that you told me that day, and I also know other words related to these, but I don’t quite understand why the difference between men and women is determined by the sexual organs? Just like my parents, my father and I have male sexual organs, and my mother also have female sexual organs. I know that it was wrong to take a video of my parents that night, but what I want to ask is that my father can do those things with my mother, why can’t I do it with my mother?
After my son asked this question, I looked at my son in surprise and thought about it carefully. In the end, what my son wanted to ask were two questions, one was the medically recognized issue of sex chromosomes that determine gender, and the other was the most taboo social problem in the social environment we live in: mother-son incest
To be honest, the previous question is easier to answer, but the latter question really makes me ask
If you want to say that social ethics and morality are placed in front of your son, now the son can barely accept it. How will the son understand it later?
I have no idea
From childhood to adulthood, this is the social ethics and moral education that Lao Fang and I received. I have asked my best friend, but I can't tell me why. I have also asked my son, his grandmother, that grandmother, my mother, then she slapped me in the face, so that I could not continue to ask questions. How could I know?
Later, when I came into contact with the printing industry, I finally learned some things in fragmentary ways, but these are not systematic. The rapid development of sexual science and the development of ethical and moral environment in the West are modern things, and they emphasize sexual openness; while the ancient Eastern countries have continued the subtle and slow development of sexual culture and historical and cultural accumulation for thousands of years, which emphasize a tolerance and implicit social ethics.
Although there are many contents of Eastern and Western sexology, it is difficult to explain clearly for a while.
I can't explain it clearly if I want to say it simply, how can I answer this?
I thought about it and could only explain to my son in simplified manner: Son, the first question is easy to answer, your biology textbook is available, I will talk to you later; the second question really stumped my mother, it doesn't mean that my mother doesn't know, my mother knows, but I can't explain it to you for a while. This is because my mother's knowledge is not broad enough and I can't answer it for the time being. My son nodded and said: Mom feels it is difficult to answer, so I have to wait until my mother figures it out before telling me. I nodded and said: It's true. Even if you ask your biology teacher, history teacher and class teacher, they will find it difficult to answer. It's not that my mother doesn't tell you.
My son nodded and I continued: The first question is Mom: Now you are almost the second grade of junior high school. In fact, you have also obtained a set of textbooks for the second grade of junior high school. I have already previewed it, right?
Um
Remember how the biology textbook tells the content that determines the gender of the human body?
I know, it's the sex chromosome
By the way, there is a sex chromosome on every cell in everyone. Do you still remember what it looks like?
Double helix? My son's answer is somewhat uncertain
Yes, every cell in each person has a pair of sex chromosomes, which is only one of the 23 pairs of chromosomes compared to each person.
23 pairs of chromosomes? What is this mother?
23 pairs of chromosomes refer to the genetic genes in every cell of the human body. DNA is a unique genetic code for everyone. For example, your father and I have your son. In terms of genetics, you have some of the genes of dad and mom, but only some are different from dad or mom. Among the 23 pairs of chromosomes, 22 pairs of autosomes are known to mothers. What mom knows is that these 22 pairs of chromosomes can determine the person's height, weight, appearance, body shape, etc.; the other pair of chromosomes can determine whether the person's gender is male or female, and whether the person's sexual organs are male or female; so this pair of chromosomes is called sex chromosomes
So, mother, what is the difference between sex chromosomes? What is the difference between Dad’s pair of sex chromosomes and Mom’s pair of sex chromosomes?
I smiled and stroked my son's head and said: Yes, this pair of chromosomes is very similar to two of the 26 letters of English you have learned, namely X and Y. I said that, and I took the paper and pen in my son's hand and wrote it: This is X, this is Y, right, dad is a male, the shape of the pair of sex chromosomes of men is arranged like this: XY; mom is a female, and the pair of sex chromosomes of women is arranged like this: Is it easy to distinguish a pair of chromosomes like XX?
My son obviously didn't understand what the use of arrangement like this, but then he thought about it: Mom, is this pair of sex chromosomes for men in the shape of XY, while the sex chromosomes for women in the shape of XX?
I rubbed my son's little head and smiled: Son is so smart! That's it
The son smiled and then said: So how did these chromosomes run into the human body?
I understood that what my son wanted to ask was a genetic question, so I picked up the pen and wrote two pairs of XX and XY in a row. My son's eyes had never left the paper, so I listened to my explanation carefully: Son, do you see if this line is separated? Mom began to assume that this pair of XY is from grandpa; this pair of XX is from grandpa; this pair of XY is from grandpa, right?
My son nodded, and the pen in my hand wrote XY and XX in the fourth line, and connected it with a dotted line: Dad is the son of grandparents, so dad inherits the XY composed of grandpa's Y and grandma's X; mom is the daughter of grandpa's grandma, so xX composed of grandpa's X and grandma's X.
I stopped writing, looked at my son, continued to write an XY in the seventh line, and continued to connect it with a dotted line, saying: After mom and dad got married, you are the son of mom and dad. So, you inherited the XY of dad's Y and mom's X, and do you understand the other half of the sex chromosome of mom's body?
My son looked at the dotted lines I drew on the paper with a little confused
After thinking about it, I seemed to understand something
Nodded fiercely
I was surprised, even I was shocked by this idea
The husband is always out of business, in other words, it is the child's education problem: the school is in charge of academic education, and the family can only provide some assistance; most of the education in life can only be carried out by the family, let alone the child's psychological education, sex education, etc., etc. can only be taught by the family.
This is also due to the social environment
It's really...unspeakable helpless
Another thing is that my son saw my naked body without any evil thoughts, and he was afraid that his feelings of fear and admiration would occupy the main idea.
My figure is not bad. I'm slightly more than a pound or two more weight than Lao Fangqian who didn't marry. I also do yoga regularly every few days to maintain my body shape and figure.
Marrying Lao Fang for more than ten years, let him treat me like a little puppy. The biggest reason is that Lao Fang loves me, I also love Lao Fang. I prefer to keep my body and body in the state before getting married. The so-called: A woman is to please herself, and to keep the most beautiful body shape in his eyes for her husband and her appearance and skin. It is also a way for couples to maintain sex and affection.
Ahem, it's off topic
Until now, how to educate my son has become a question I think about
Judging from the education I have been to my son these days, my son is obviously very ignorant about human physiology.
Fortunately, I was wise and asked my son to go to the library and came back. My son was obviously much more rational. When I saw my sleeping naked body, I didn't touch my feet randomly. The thoughts of admiration and fear obviously allowed my son to control his reason.
This is a good start
But... my son's age and experience are obviously not up to the way he can
My son also understands the knowledge in the book and the knowledge about physiology in the textbook, but he is also very ignorant. This is the problem.
It seems that this problem can be compensated slowly in about half a year, but it is not something I, a mother, can help him make up for.
Well, this is the only way to educate my son at this stage
I just hope my son can understand and understand the knowledge I have taught him in the past six months
After thinking through it, I no longer struggled. It was almost four in the morning when I saw the wall clock. Why didn’t I find myself not sleepy at this time?
I smiled and shook my head, quietly went upstairs and went back to the master bedroom, lay back on the bed, empty my brain and let myself fall asleep
A few days later, my son found me and talked about the strange things that happened to him. He always didn't want to tell his parents about the strange feelings that happened to him. He even didn't concentrate on his work. He always kept the light on when he fell asleep at night. When he didn't do anything, he always grabbed his hair and stared at him in a daze. He always disagreed with what his parents said. He always wanted to verify it himself.
Before my son looked for me, I honestly held the pile of books I got back from the company that day and made up for the reason. I broke it apart and told my son clearly and frankly. My son naturally realized that he understood and said: Mom, thank you for explaining the weirdness of me to me. I will learn to control my emotions and control my behavior. The words were like when I was a child. My son hugged my head and snuggled in my arms.
Naturally, I didn't think about anything else, and reached out to stroke my son's head and said: You are my son, the flesh that fell from my body after ten months of pregnancy. Think about it, which mother doesn't want to give her children the best? Have other ideas. Now you are serious about studying hard.
My son nodded and I continued: You should know that your current living and learning environment will be much better than your dad and you, and it will be much better than your grandparents and parents-in-law at that time. If you don’t cherish such a good and peaceful environment and study, that is a waste of your life. Although your living conditions are relatively good now, it is also inseparable from your hard work and study back then.
My son was completely speechless, and the mother and I spent an afternoon together
When my son let go of my body, my son told me red: Mom, I understand the meaning of morning erection, nocturnal emission, endometrium, and menstruation that you told me that day, and I also know other words related to these, but I don’t quite understand why the difference between men and women is determined by the sexual organs? Just like my parents, my father and I have male sexual organs, and my mother also have female sexual organs. I know that it was wrong to take a video of my parents that night, but what I want to ask is that my father can do those things with my mother, why can’t I do it with my mother?
After my son asked this question, I looked at my son in surprise and thought about it carefully. In the end, what my son wanted to ask were two questions, one was the medically recognized issue of sex chromosomes that determine gender, and the other was the most taboo social problem in the social environment we live in: mother-son incest
To be honest, the previous question is easier to answer, but the latter question really makes me ask
If you want to say that social ethics and morality are placed in front of your son, now the son can barely accept it. How will the son understand it later?
I have no idea
From childhood to adulthood, this is the social ethics and moral education that Lao Fang and I received. I have asked my best friend, but I can't tell me why. I have also asked my son, his grandmother, that grandmother, my mother, then she slapped me in the face, so that I could not continue to ask questions. How could I know?
Later, when I came into contact with the printing industry, I finally learned some things in fragmentary ways, but these are not systematic. The rapid development of sexual science and the development of ethical and moral environment in the West are modern things, and they emphasize sexual openness; while the ancient Eastern countries have continued the subtle and slow development of sexual culture and historical and cultural accumulation for thousands of years, which emphasize a tolerance and implicit social ethics.
Although there are many contents of Eastern and Western sexology, it is difficult to explain clearly for a while.
I can't explain it clearly if I want to say it simply, how can I answer this?
I thought about it and could only explain to my son in simplified manner: Son, the first question is easy to answer, your biology textbook is available, I will talk to you later; the second question really stumped my mother, it doesn't mean that my mother doesn't know, my mother knows, but I can't explain it to you for a while. This is because my mother's knowledge is not broad enough and I can't answer it for the time being. My son nodded and said: Mom feels it is difficult to answer, so I have to wait until my mother figures it out before telling me. I nodded and said: It's true. Even if you ask your biology teacher, history teacher and class teacher, they will find it difficult to answer. It's not that my mother doesn't tell you.
My son nodded and I continued: The first question is Mom: Now you are almost the second grade of junior high school. In fact, you have also obtained a set of textbooks for the second grade of junior high school. I have already previewed it, right?
Um
Remember how the biology textbook tells the content that determines the gender of the human body?
I know, it's the sex chromosome
By the way, there is a sex chromosome on every cell in everyone. Do you still remember what it looks like?
Double helix? My son's answer is somewhat uncertain
Yes, every cell in each person has a pair of sex chromosomes, which is only one of the 23 pairs of chromosomes compared to each person.
23 pairs of chromosomes? What is this mother?
23 pairs of chromosomes refer to the genetic genes in every cell of the human body. DNA is a unique genetic code for everyone. For example, your father and I have your son. In terms of genetics, you have some of the genes of dad and mom, but only some are different from dad or mom. Among the 23 pairs of chromosomes, 22 pairs of autosomes are known to mothers. What mom knows is that these 22 pairs of chromosomes can determine the person's height, weight, appearance, body shape, etc.; the other pair of chromosomes can determine whether the person's gender is male or female, and whether the person's sexual organs are male or female; so this pair of chromosomes is called sex chromosomes
So, mother, what is the difference between sex chromosomes? What is the difference between Dad’s pair of sex chromosomes and Mom’s pair of sex chromosomes?
I smiled and stroked my son's head and said: Yes, this pair of chromosomes is very similar to two of the 26 letters of English you have learned, namely X and Y. I said that, and I took the paper and pen in my son's hand and wrote it: This is X, this is Y, right, dad is a male, the shape of the pair of sex chromosomes of men is arranged like this: XY; mom is a female, and the pair of sex chromosomes of women is arranged like this: Is it easy to distinguish a pair of chromosomes like XX?
My son obviously didn't understand what the use of arrangement like this, but then he thought about it: Mom, is this pair of sex chromosomes for men in the shape of XY, while the sex chromosomes for women in the shape of XX?
I rubbed my son's little head and smiled: Son is so smart! That's it
The son smiled and then said: So how did these chromosomes run into the human body?
I understood that what my son wanted to ask was a genetic question, so I picked up the pen and wrote two pairs of XX and XY in a row. My son's eyes had never left the paper, so I listened to my explanation carefully: Son, do you see if this line is separated? Mom began to assume that this pair of XY is from grandpa; this pair of XX is from grandpa; this pair of XY is from grandpa, right?
My son nodded, and the pen in my hand wrote XY and XX in the fourth line, and connected it with a dotted line: Dad is the son of grandparents, so dad inherits the XY composed of grandpa's Y and grandma's X; mom is the daughter of grandpa's grandma, so xX composed of grandpa's X and grandma's X.
I stopped writing, looked at my son, continued to write an XY in the seventh line, and continued to connect it with a dotted line, saying: After mom and dad got married, you are the son of mom and dad. So, you inherited the XY of dad's Y and mom's X, and do you understand the other half of the sex chromosome of mom's body?
My son looked at the dotted lines I drew on the paper with a little confused
After thinking about it, I seemed to understand something
Nodded fiercely
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