Everyone's life is always full of all kinds of surprises, but my life caught me off guard. My wife and I actually have a chance to know each other. My name is Zhao Ran, and I am a doctor in a private mental health clinic. Among my patients, there are all kinds of strange people, including but not limited to various mental illnesses, such as cleanliness, alcoholism, sleep disorders, and various emotional processing disorders, etc. My wife Liu Qing is a junior high school Chinese teacher at a key provincial middle school. She also serves as the head teacher. Her wife comes from the countryside. After graduating from the normal school, she graduated with excellent grades.And assigned to this provincial capital city. Because I felt a lot of mental pressure in the third year of teaching, I often came to my place for medical treatment. During my contact with her, I found that she was a very sentimental woman. I was always worried about whether her students would blame her if they didn’t do well in the exam, and whether there would be any problems in her teaching method. I always hoped that everything would be perfect, and kept putting myself all kinds of pressure, which led to her frequent insomnia, hair loss, and lack of concentration during the day. The more this happens, the more likely it is to have problems in teaching.