I am a experienced person. After my husband's soft and hard work, I finally compromised and participated in the wife swapping activity. I have now communicated with my husband about some experiences and later communication with my husband. I have learned some experiences and lessons learned as a husband in how to operate this matter, as well as the mental journey of a wife who has been abide by all her life in participating in such activities. I also thank the enthusiastic friends who helped me some time ago. The article is a bit long. Given that most of my friends are accustomed to the short and flat methods, the current situation where posts and replyers in this page often paste the content directly in the title box without content, I will post this article in paragraphs and update it from time to time. I hope it can be liked by everyone.