There are many forms of marriage, and as a man, I may have no choice but to choose the most embarrassing one. I am a married woman, sn in law, also called back-end. The love for my wife made me ignore the obstruction of my parents and the persuasion of my friends, and resolutely agreed to the request of the woman's family. In my opinion, this is just a name. It is already a new society, and it is not much worse. And I am also a relatively optimistic person. Just like the question of the child's surname, at worst, you can have two, one with your mother and the other with your father. After all, it is a family, and it can be negotiated. However, the life after marriage proves how naive I was at the beginning.