Yang Letian knows that the reason he is interested in SM is because he has gradually fallen in love with this thing. Of course, what he likes is not like Kong Shengdong whipping women to get pleasure. What he is interested in is to impose mild violence and abuse on women to improve the quality of sex and get more sexual pleasure.
Obviously, his idea was not a product of a whim, but over time. In the past, he used violent coercion to possess her and the slight physical abuse he had done to Xiaomei. The excitement brought to him was something that ordinary sex could not be given. Even now, he still felt hot all over, and the desire in his body was still ready to move.
However, he didn't know that this was SM before. Now, after Yu Jie's video tape, he wanted to thoroughly understand this thing. Only with rich theoretical knowledge can he better practice it. This is a very simple and obvious truth.
Yang Letian learned through online information that SM is not a single thing. It covers a wide range. There are several types in the SM group. They are mainly divided into 16 major types, including self-abuse, sadism, dedication, passion, curiosity, stimulation, aesthetic, romantic, stress, preference, reversal, challenge, economic, release, intelligence, and hybrid. They each have their own different expressions and have their own different characteristics.
First of all, it is self-abuse type, which covers all mainstream and non-mainstream groups
Almost everyone has more or less mental or physical abuse during their life, and voluntary endurance of mental stress or physical patience is self-abuse.
Here we specifically refer to people who deliberately abuse themselves in some way. Such people have a tendency to be autistic, have low trust in the outside world or others, and have a strong exclusivity mentality.
Although they are abused, they rarely form SM relationships with others
They usually become cold-eyed bystanders in the SM circle and learn how to abuse themselves in their observation of ethnic behavior
The second type of sadism is still spread across all mainstream and non-mainstream people.
Almost everyone has more or less mentally or physically abused him in their life. In mainstream society, they are not alternative and unacceptable.
Here we specifically refer to those who deliberately abuse others, who gain psychological satisfaction and release through mental or physical abuse and suppression of others.
After entering the SM group, this kind of person will show extreme excitement and blindness. He will often linger in this group for a long time and find and attack any abused person. There is only one possibility for them to withdraw from the group, that is, to encounter tenacious abused persons. The tenacity and endurance of the abused persons cause excessive mental pressure to them and return to the mainstream psychology. After returning, they will often become more moderate.
The third type of dedication, which is a possibility for almost everyone, because their abuse and abuse are entirely out of love for a specific object.
This type of people are psychologically firm and persistent. They pay great attention to the feelings and requirements of the object and can satisfy the other party with the greatest limit and patience. They aim to satisfy the object's satisfaction and happiness as their purpose.
They only want to seek methods when entering the SM group, and at the same time they will not understand and question SM people without emotional factors. They will not form SM relationships with anyone other than the specific object in the group. They come and go freely in the group.
The fourth passion type, they desire strong sensory stimulation, seek intense behavior in life, and pursue passionate sex in sexual roles. Strictly speaking, they cannot be considered SM people.
What they desire is more passionate and violent behavior and sex. If they mistakenly join the SM group, they will basically only accept mild sexual abuse, mental insults or desire for promiscuity and rape-style sex. They are mostly fantasy and masturbation enthusiasts.
For other SM methods, they show discomfort and disgust. Withdrawal from the ethnic group generally produces certain psychological problems or counter-passionate is indifference.
The fifth curiosity type, with a vague understanding of the nature and methods of SM, will break into this circle because of curiosity.
This type of people is quite common among the SM group, and most of them are seeking alternative romantic psychosocials. They are curious about various subcultures and new things, and they are looking at them.
Their basic characteristics are their inability to determine the form they can accept and the role positioning they receive
They look forward to trying, but their psychological fear and self-defense are the strongest, and they are most worried about violence and the damage to social reputation.
After experiencing the attempt, a few of them will determine their tendencies through experience, and most of them will completely withdraw. After quitting, they will generally feel disgusted with SM, but generally will not have long-term psychological impact.
The six stimulation type, in a state of vague consciousness, attempted to try through certain personal experiences, fantasies, and psychological needs
This type is also a majority in the SM group
Its characteristics are not mature enough in mind, SM consciousness is vague but manifests itself as strong and radical desire to try
Before starting the behavior, they accept almost most or even all SM methods with exceptions
The role positioning of the giving role is basically vague, and the performance is usually two-way. Psychological fear and desire to try together
They usually only need to determine their tendencies and acceptable methods after trying, and their enthusiasm can easily fade away. Once they exit, they will usually lead to serious and long-term psychological problems due to their intense attempts.
The seven aesthetic types, they pursue perfection and visual experience, are typical spiritual fanatics
Hot to be loyal to psychological role transformation; for them, SM is a game to achieve fantasy; any behavior must reach the limit of some ideal; after entering the character, they are usually in a crazy state; they will be frustrated because they cannot achieve their ideals; psychological fluctuations and large; because of their fantasy and hallucinations, this type is also a more dangerous type; entering the SM group will excite them, and small setbacks and imperfections can also cause extreme decadence; once they suffer setbacks, they will leave the group immediately
The eight romantic types are basically the mainstream of humanities, they do not have much understanding of SM and idealize this relationship and behavior. They generally do not accept more violent giving and receiving in the true sense. This type is mostly young people and the cultural level is centered. They have a higher demand for psychology. When they enter the SM group, they generally choose the combination of the main and sexual slaves, and have higher requirements for the quality of sex to accept alternative sex methods. They are looking forward to a temperamental and gentle opponent, and emotional fit is the prerequisite for establishing an SM relationship. Once they enter the role, they will immerse themselves in the fantasy role and gain psychological satisfaction; they are generally more stable but difficult to approach; if they exit the MS group, most of them will not have psychological problems.
Its nine stress type: due to excessive pressure in its social or family role, it hopes to be released in this way
This type of people is psychological extreme due to excessive pressure. They seek the same intensity of pressure and stimulation in the opposite direction. Usually they desire more mental humiliation than physical abuse. Most of these people have a high social and cultural level, have strong self-discipline and willpower, have a strong sense of challenge and is difficult to control, have the ability to self-regulate, can distinguish social roles and SM roles well, pay great attention to social image, and have high requirements for SM partners.
Generally speaking, they will not stay in the ethnic group for a long time, and they will rarely cause psychological problems after exiting. If their SM experience feels good, they will be free to enter and exit.
Its ten preference type, prefers a certain SM form, such as: certain instrument, binding, sexual abuse, pain, humiliation, etc. They prefer one or several of them.
This type of people is a viral infection type. As long as their needs are met, they will be immersed in it and will be difficult to extricate themselves. However, in addition to those who like humiliating, they have a strong sense of self-esteem and are very likely to return to social roles independently. They will also be greatly affected by psychological effects after withdrawing, mainly because they have a strong sense of shame.
Its eleven rebellious type, rebellious or revenge mentality under out-of-control emotions caused by certain external stress factors
The psychological causes of this type of people are very complex, with great psychological fluctuations and strong personalities. People with rebellious mentality often choose to be abused to practice themselves, while those with revenge mentality often choose to be abused to get vented. However, whether it is for giving or receiving, these people are very dangerous and prone to excessive behavior. They will often go from one extreme to the other, from extreme irritability to extreme frustration. The psychological conflicts of these people are the most serious, so be careful to be careful.
Its twelve challenges, through this intense behavior, the purpose of challenging the limits of self-spirit and physical body
Its thirteen economic type, achieves economic goals through SM behavior
As long as there is a need, there will be markets and exchanges. They are like prostitutes or socialites in SM (the indecent statement system has been filtered) to exchange services for economic benefits. The only difference is that among these people, the majority of them, choose to be masters, have the mentality of killing two birds with one stone. Driven by economic benefits, they are usually the perfect choice at a lower spiritual level.
Its fourteen release type comes from the psychological factors of the original desire, such as slavery or control, to seek release.
This type of person can basically be said to be a standard SM. Factors such as their life experience lead to a strong psychological slavery and desire for control. If a little adjustment or practice, they will become a standard SM. However, whether they can become an excellent SM depends on their acquired wisdom growth. If the control person has a low humanistic and spiritual level, they are likely to become a real violent or even a murderer. The key to the slave person is to meet an excellent long-term master, otherwise, he will enter extreme helplessness and fear, and then her situation will be very miserable; they have fewer psychological disorders, and generally will not leave the ethnic group, or even become the organizers of the ethnic group.
Obviously, his idea was not a product of a whim, but over time. In the past, he used violent coercion to possess her and the slight physical abuse he had done to Xiaomei. The excitement brought to him was something that ordinary sex could not be given. Even now, he still felt hot all over, and the desire in his body was still ready to move.
However, he didn't know that this was SM before. Now, after Yu Jie's video tape, he wanted to thoroughly understand this thing. Only with rich theoretical knowledge can he better practice it. This is a very simple and obvious truth.
Yang Letian learned through online information that SM is not a single thing. It covers a wide range. There are several types in the SM group. They are mainly divided into 16 major types, including self-abuse, sadism, dedication, passion, curiosity, stimulation, aesthetic, romantic, stress, preference, reversal, challenge, economic, release, intelligence, and hybrid. They each have their own different expressions and have their own different characteristics.
First of all, it is self-abuse type, which covers all mainstream and non-mainstream groups
Almost everyone has more or less mental or physical abuse during their life, and voluntary endurance of mental stress or physical patience is self-abuse.
Here we specifically refer to people who deliberately abuse themselves in some way. Such people have a tendency to be autistic, have low trust in the outside world or others, and have a strong exclusivity mentality.
Although they are abused, they rarely form SM relationships with others
They usually become cold-eyed bystanders in the SM circle and learn how to abuse themselves in their observation of ethnic behavior
The second type of sadism is still spread across all mainstream and non-mainstream people.
Almost everyone has more or less mentally or physically abused him in their life. In mainstream society, they are not alternative and unacceptable.
Here we specifically refer to those who deliberately abuse others, who gain psychological satisfaction and release through mental or physical abuse and suppression of others.
After entering the SM group, this kind of person will show extreme excitement and blindness. He will often linger in this group for a long time and find and attack any abused person. There is only one possibility for them to withdraw from the group, that is, to encounter tenacious abused persons. The tenacity and endurance of the abused persons cause excessive mental pressure to them and return to the mainstream psychology. After returning, they will often become more moderate.
The third type of dedication, which is a possibility for almost everyone, because their abuse and abuse are entirely out of love for a specific object.
This type of people are psychologically firm and persistent. They pay great attention to the feelings and requirements of the object and can satisfy the other party with the greatest limit and patience. They aim to satisfy the object's satisfaction and happiness as their purpose.
They only want to seek methods when entering the SM group, and at the same time they will not understand and question SM people without emotional factors. They will not form SM relationships with anyone other than the specific object in the group. They come and go freely in the group.
The fourth passion type, they desire strong sensory stimulation, seek intense behavior in life, and pursue passionate sex in sexual roles. Strictly speaking, they cannot be considered SM people.
What they desire is more passionate and violent behavior and sex. If they mistakenly join the SM group, they will basically only accept mild sexual abuse, mental insults or desire for promiscuity and rape-style sex. They are mostly fantasy and masturbation enthusiasts.
For other SM methods, they show discomfort and disgust. Withdrawal from the ethnic group generally produces certain psychological problems or counter-passionate is indifference.
The fifth curiosity type, with a vague understanding of the nature and methods of SM, will break into this circle because of curiosity.
This type of people is quite common among the SM group, and most of them are seeking alternative romantic psychosocials. They are curious about various subcultures and new things, and they are looking at them.
Their basic characteristics are their inability to determine the form they can accept and the role positioning they receive
They look forward to trying, but their psychological fear and self-defense are the strongest, and they are most worried about violence and the damage to social reputation.
After experiencing the attempt, a few of them will determine their tendencies through experience, and most of them will completely withdraw. After quitting, they will generally feel disgusted with SM, but generally will not have long-term psychological impact.
The six stimulation type, in a state of vague consciousness, attempted to try through certain personal experiences, fantasies, and psychological needs
This type is also a majority in the SM group
Its characteristics are not mature enough in mind, SM consciousness is vague but manifests itself as strong and radical desire to try
Before starting the behavior, they accept almost most or even all SM methods with exceptions
The role positioning of the giving role is basically vague, and the performance is usually two-way. Psychological fear and desire to try together
They usually only need to determine their tendencies and acceptable methods after trying, and their enthusiasm can easily fade away. Once they exit, they will usually lead to serious and long-term psychological problems due to their intense attempts.
The seven aesthetic types, they pursue perfection and visual experience, are typical spiritual fanatics
Hot to be loyal to psychological role transformation; for them, SM is a game to achieve fantasy; any behavior must reach the limit of some ideal; after entering the character, they are usually in a crazy state; they will be frustrated because they cannot achieve their ideals; psychological fluctuations and large; because of their fantasy and hallucinations, this type is also a more dangerous type; entering the SM group will excite them, and small setbacks and imperfections can also cause extreme decadence; once they suffer setbacks, they will leave the group immediately
The eight romantic types are basically the mainstream of humanities, they do not have much understanding of SM and idealize this relationship and behavior. They generally do not accept more violent giving and receiving in the true sense. This type is mostly young people and the cultural level is centered. They have a higher demand for psychology. When they enter the SM group, they generally choose the combination of the main and sexual slaves, and have higher requirements for the quality of sex to accept alternative sex methods. They are looking forward to a temperamental and gentle opponent, and emotional fit is the prerequisite for establishing an SM relationship. Once they enter the role, they will immerse themselves in the fantasy role and gain psychological satisfaction; they are generally more stable but difficult to approach; if they exit the MS group, most of them will not have psychological problems.
Its nine stress type: due to excessive pressure in its social or family role, it hopes to be released in this way
This type of people is psychological extreme due to excessive pressure. They seek the same intensity of pressure and stimulation in the opposite direction. Usually they desire more mental humiliation than physical abuse. Most of these people have a high social and cultural level, have strong self-discipline and willpower, have a strong sense of challenge and is difficult to control, have the ability to self-regulate, can distinguish social roles and SM roles well, pay great attention to social image, and have high requirements for SM partners.
Generally speaking, they will not stay in the ethnic group for a long time, and they will rarely cause psychological problems after exiting. If their SM experience feels good, they will be free to enter and exit.
Its ten preference type, prefers a certain SM form, such as: certain instrument, binding, sexual abuse, pain, humiliation, etc. They prefer one or several of them.
This type of people is a viral infection type. As long as their needs are met, they will be immersed in it and will be difficult to extricate themselves. However, in addition to those who like humiliating, they have a strong sense of self-esteem and are very likely to return to social roles independently. They will also be greatly affected by psychological effects after withdrawing, mainly because they have a strong sense of shame.
Its eleven rebellious type, rebellious or revenge mentality under out-of-control emotions caused by certain external stress factors
The psychological causes of this type of people are very complex, with great psychological fluctuations and strong personalities. People with rebellious mentality often choose to be abused to practice themselves, while those with revenge mentality often choose to be abused to get vented. However, whether it is for giving or receiving, these people are very dangerous and prone to excessive behavior. They will often go from one extreme to the other, from extreme irritability to extreme frustration. The psychological conflicts of these people are the most serious, so be careful to be careful.
Its twelve challenges, through this intense behavior, the purpose of challenging the limits of self-spirit and physical body
Its thirteen economic type, achieves economic goals through SM behavior
As long as there is a need, there will be markets and exchanges. They are like prostitutes or socialites in SM (the indecent statement system has been filtered) to exchange services for economic benefits. The only difference is that among these people, the majority of them, choose to be masters, have the mentality of killing two birds with one stone. Driven by economic benefits, they are usually the perfect choice at a lower spiritual level.
Its fourteen release type comes from the psychological factors of the original desire, such as slavery or control, to seek release.
This type of person can basically be said to be a standard SM. Factors such as their life experience lead to a strong psychological slavery and desire for control. If a little adjustment or practice, they will become a standard SM. However, whether they can become an excellent SM depends on their acquired wisdom growth. If the control person has a low humanistic and spiritual level, they are likely to become a real violent or even a murderer. The key to the slave person is to meet an excellent long-term master, otherwise, he will enter extreme helplessness and fear, and then her situation will be very miserable; they have fewer psychological disorders, and generally will not leave the ethnic group, or even become the organizers of the ethnic group.
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