Parents’ love for their children is the only love in the world that aims to separate.
When I first heard this sentence, I was accompanying Zhao Yi to attend a prenatal study class.
The little nurse in the obstetrics and gynecology department is very young. She dances and tells the love of parents for their children in class with both voice and emotion.
When it comes to separation, perhaps few people realize that the first important parting in life is the separation of the child from his mother's body when he is born.
Mom's uterus is like a warm cradle.
After the child stayed comfortably for ten months, he suddenly came to a completely unfamiliar world, which is a huge challenge for the child.
For the mother, it is an inevitable pain of childbirth.
A smooth separation is crucial to the child's psychological growth and the mother's mentality change.
For this reason, parents need to create a quiet and stable family environment after the child is born, which will bring an indispensable sense of security to help children slowly adapt to the changing environment.
New parents should also understand each other and maintain consensus.
Dads should especially understand the pain and discomfort caused to their mothers after their children leave their bodies, and accompany them more, praise them more, and encourage them more.
I participated in this prenatal study class on the surface to appease Zhao Yi, but in fact, I also enjoyed every minute and every second.
At that time, she knew that she was pregnant with twins. Zhao Yi was very nervous and bought a bunch of books on childbirth and childcare at home.
I, a dad, am so happy.
The chance of one-tenth of 250 is not just about to come to everyone. Mom is great, dad is amazing, and tadpoles have first-class swimming skills.
At that time, I never thought about what to do when facing another kind of separation.
Of course I will worry, and all parents will worry.
Since the child was born, we began to worry that the child was dressed too cold, did not eat enough, had fever and was sick, and was injured in falling.
Every day, every moment, never exception.
Most parents spend their time in danger, watching their children grow up day by day happily.
However, there are still some parents in this world who are not so lucky to experience the pain of separation from their children.
There is no tomorrow, no hope, only scattered memories, like fine sand in your hands, the more you want to grasp it, the faster you lose it.
Countless experts, books and videos teach us how to welcome the arrival of small lives, but few people mention how we should accept the pain of losing small lives.
Dad, a small voice sounded beside me.
My daughter's voice is very similar to her twin brothers, soft and sweet, which both comforts me and breaks my heart.
I rubbed my temples and regretted locking myself in the study all day.
Although I claim to have work to be done, I know it’s just an excuse to close myself down.
What's wrong, Ranran?I focused on my daughter.
After we knew that Zhao Yi was pregnant with twins, we started thinking about his name. At that time, he decided not to care about the gender, and the boss screamed, "The second brother is Feng."
Together, they form a "more trend", and hope that the two children can be well-educated and thrived.
The birth of the twins was very smooth, and they rarely got sick, and they were well-behaved and obedient.We have always felt that it is so lucky to have such a pair of children as parents.
My chest was thrusting again, and I couldn't understand what happened to Xiaofeng until now.
He fell asleep and never woke up again.
The probability of sudden cardiac death is very low, even lower in seven-year-old children.
However, no matter how low it is, it is not zero. It not only happens, but also happens to my children.
Dad, I miss Xiaofeng.Wei Ran's tone was both sad and humble.
Zhao Yi and I lost their son, and Wei Ran lost her brother.
These siblings shared everything when they were in their mother's belly, and they were inseparable from birth.
Wei Feng was born ten minutes later than Wei Ran.
Just like the order of birth, Wei Feng followed his sister in everything he did, and Wei Ran was protecting Wei Feng at all times.
Two people have very different personalities but are intimate. They can speak with each other with their eyes, and they can always know each other's emotions and help each other when needed.
I leaned against the office chair and looked at my daughter, my only child.She was just seven years old, tall and thin, with big black eyes so innocent, and her originally full of vitality was now full of worry.
So, Ranran.I patted my legs, and she couldn't wait to climb onto my legs.
I pulled her into my arms and buried her face in her hair.
The siblings used the same shampoo and shower gel, and the familiar smell made my throat make an annoying whimper.
Wei Feng was dead, no matter how superb medical skills or advanced instruments were, he could not be saved.
I want to be alone and drunk and unconscious, but drinking won't bring him back to life.
Similarly, staying awake can’t be.
what do I do?
I am sorry, I choked and the hot tears slid down my cheeks.
In my life, I have never been so helpless and desperate.
Wei Ran also started crying, and I hugged her tighter.
After the doctor regretfully reported the cause of Wei Feng's death, he kept emphasizing that we are not only one child, and we must also choose to be strong for Wei Ran.
I have used this set of rhetoric countless times for the patient's family, but I didn't expect it to be used on myself now.
Zhao Yi could not do it. After Wei Feng died, she was immersed in the dark memories and could not extricate herself. She locked herself in the bedroom most of the time every day.
Refuse to pay attention to anyone and not let anyone enter her world.
I can only take care of my daughter. In addition to Ai Weiran, I also have to re-glue the family together.
But I did a terrible job. I threw my daughter to the nanny at home these days. I went out early and returned late and sent my love to work. When I got home, I was still stuck in the study.
My mother ignored me and didn’t talk to me. Is it because she loves Xiaofeng more?Wei Ran asked me carefully, his eyes full of worry and fear.
Wei Ran lost his close brother, and it can be said that he also lost his beloved mother at the same time.
Looking at my daughter's fearful look, my heart was about to break.
I am a father, and I can't protect the dead children, nor can I protect the living ones.
Of course not. She loves Xiaofeng and loves you the same. I retorted firmly, stroked her long satin-like hair, and comforted: We only need to give mom some time.She was sad, we were all sad, and everyone was sad in different ways.
Dad, you will always be by my side and won’t stop talking to me, right?Wei Ran begged me with tears in his eyes: There were so many people in the family in the past, I had you, my mother, and Xiaofeng, but now I don’t have anyone.I don't want to be alone, I'm scared!
More tears rolled down from my eyes, soaking my daughter's hair.
I couldn't speak, so I could only hold her tightly and nod.
I secretly swore that from now on, even if my emotions are in a low position and my life is dark, I will take good care of this well-behaved daughter.
Wei Feng is part of my life. I don’t want to get out of the pain of losing him, but I know that I must coexist with my inner despair.
In the past, I always advised those who were sad or anxious, whether they were patients or their families, and suggested that they make some adjustments and corrections, no matter what.
Now that I change my position, I actually forgot how important it is.
A clear thought in my mind roared at me. Those pessimistic emotions couldn't kill me, but I might lose another child.
I hugged Wei Ran even tighter and nodded again.
I promise.My words were very light, but Wei Ran heard them.
She could always hear it.
I love you, dad.
I love you too, Ranran.
When I first heard this sentence, I was accompanying Zhao Yi to attend a prenatal study class.
The little nurse in the obstetrics and gynecology department is very young. She dances and tells the love of parents for their children in class with both voice and emotion.
When it comes to separation, perhaps few people realize that the first important parting in life is the separation of the child from his mother's body when he is born.
Mom's uterus is like a warm cradle.
After the child stayed comfortably for ten months, he suddenly came to a completely unfamiliar world, which is a huge challenge for the child.
For the mother, it is an inevitable pain of childbirth.
A smooth separation is crucial to the child's psychological growth and the mother's mentality change.
For this reason, parents need to create a quiet and stable family environment after the child is born, which will bring an indispensable sense of security to help children slowly adapt to the changing environment.
New parents should also understand each other and maintain consensus.
Dads should especially understand the pain and discomfort caused to their mothers after their children leave their bodies, and accompany them more, praise them more, and encourage them more.
I participated in this prenatal study class on the surface to appease Zhao Yi, but in fact, I also enjoyed every minute and every second.
At that time, she knew that she was pregnant with twins. Zhao Yi was very nervous and bought a bunch of books on childbirth and childcare at home.
I, a dad, am so happy.
The chance of one-tenth of 250 is not just about to come to everyone. Mom is great, dad is amazing, and tadpoles have first-class swimming skills.
At that time, I never thought about what to do when facing another kind of separation.
Of course I will worry, and all parents will worry.
Since the child was born, we began to worry that the child was dressed too cold, did not eat enough, had fever and was sick, and was injured in falling.
Every day, every moment, never exception.
Most parents spend their time in danger, watching their children grow up day by day happily.
However, there are still some parents in this world who are not so lucky to experience the pain of separation from their children.
There is no tomorrow, no hope, only scattered memories, like fine sand in your hands, the more you want to grasp it, the faster you lose it.
Countless experts, books and videos teach us how to welcome the arrival of small lives, but few people mention how we should accept the pain of losing small lives.
Dad, a small voice sounded beside me.
My daughter's voice is very similar to her twin brothers, soft and sweet, which both comforts me and breaks my heart.
I rubbed my temples and regretted locking myself in the study all day.
Although I claim to have work to be done, I know it’s just an excuse to close myself down.
What's wrong, Ranran?I focused on my daughter.
After we knew that Zhao Yi was pregnant with twins, we started thinking about his name. At that time, he decided not to care about the gender, and the boss screamed, "The second brother is Feng."
Together, they form a "more trend", and hope that the two children can be well-educated and thrived.
The birth of the twins was very smooth, and they rarely got sick, and they were well-behaved and obedient.We have always felt that it is so lucky to have such a pair of children as parents.
My chest was thrusting again, and I couldn't understand what happened to Xiaofeng until now.
He fell asleep and never woke up again.
The probability of sudden cardiac death is very low, even lower in seven-year-old children.
However, no matter how low it is, it is not zero. It not only happens, but also happens to my children.
Dad, I miss Xiaofeng.Wei Ran's tone was both sad and humble.
Zhao Yi and I lost their son, and Wei Ran lost her brother.
These siblings shared everything when they were in their mother's belly, and they were inseparable from birth.
Wei Feng was born ten minutes later than Wei Ran.
Just like the order of birth, Wei Feng followed his sister in everything he did, and Wei Ran was protecting Wei Feng at all times.
Two people have very different personalities but are intimate. They can speak with each other with their eyes, and they can always know each other's emotions and help each other when needed.
I leaned against the office chair and looked at my daughter, my only child.She was just seven years old, tall and thin, with big black eyes so innocent, and her originally full of vitality was now full of worry.
So, Ranran.I patted my legs, and she couldn't wait to climb onto my legs.
I pulled her into my arms and buried her face in her hair.
The siblings used the same shampoo and shower gel, and the familiar smell made my throat make an annoying whimper.
Wei Feng was dead, no matter how superb medical skills or advanced instruments were, he could not be saved.
I want to be alone and drunk and unconscious, but drinking won't bring him back to life.
Similarly, staying awake can’t be.
what do I do?
I am sorry, I choked and the hot tears slid down my cheeks.
In my life, I have never been so helpless and desperate.
Wei Ran also started crying, and I hugged her tighter.
After the doctor regretfully reported the cause of Wei Feng's death, he kept emphasizing that we are not only one child, and we must also choose to be strong for Wei Ran.
I have used this set of rhetoric countless times for the patient's family, but I didn't expect it to be used on myself now.
Zhao Yi could not do it. After Wei Feng died, she was immersed in the dark memories and could not extricate herself. She locked herself in the bedroom most of the time every day.
Refuse to pay attention to anyone and not let anyone enter her world.
I can only take care of my daughter. In addition to Ai Weiran, I also have to re-glue the family together.
But I did a terrible job. I threw my daughter to the nanny at home these days. I went out early and returned late and sent my love to work. When I got home, I was still stuck in the study.
My mother ignored me and didn’t talk to me. Is it because she loves Xiaofeng more?Wei Ran asked me carefully, his eyes full of worry and fear.
Wei Ran lost his close brother, and it can be said that he also lost his beloved mother at the same time.
Looking at my daughter's fearful look, my heart was about to break.
I am a father, and I can't protect the dead children, nor can I protect the living ones.
Of course not. She loves Xiaofeng and loves you the same. I retorted firmly, stroked her long satin-like hair, and comforted: We only need to give mom some time.She was sad, we were all sad, and everyone was sad in different ways.
Dad, you will always be by my side and won’t stop talking to me, right?Wei Ran begged me with tears in his eyes: There were so many people in the family in the past, I had you, my mother, and Xiaofeng, but now I don’t have anyone.I don't want to be alone, I'm scared!
More tears rolled down from my eyes, soaking my daughter's hair.
I couldn't speak, so I could only hold her tightly and nod.
I secretly swore that from now on, even if my emotions are in a low position and my life is dark, I will take good care of this well-behaved daughter.
Wei Feng is part of my life. I don’t want to get out of the pain of losing him, but I know that I must coexist with my inner despair.
In the past, I always advised those who were sad or anxious, whether they were patients or their families, and suggested that they make some adjustments and corrections, no matter what.
Now that I change my position, I actually forgot how important it is.
A clear thought in my mind roared at me. Those pessimistic emotions couldn't kill me, but I might lose another child.
I hugged Wei Ran even tighter and nodded again.
I promise.My words were very light, but Wei Ran heard them.
She could always hear it.
I love you, dad.
I love you too, Ranran.
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