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Chapter 37 Marriage Celebration

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The wedding of Yuan Hong and Bai Jie was held at Zhaolong Hotel as scheduled. The wedding respects the opinions of the elders of both parties and chose an auspicious day before the Spring Festival, and it happened to be a weekend, which is convenient for relatives and friends to attend.

At the entrance of the hotel is a beautiful circular arch, with flower styles formed neatly arranged, like well-trained guards, greeting guests.

Bright red roses and various balloons decorate the entrance of the wedding venue to create a strong wedding atmosphere.

There is a carefully selected large wedding photos of Yuan Hong and Bai Jie on each side, which are placed at the entrance of the wedding hall, showing the handsome man and beautiful woman and a natural couple.

At the wedding, close friends and relatives of both parties came, and Ding Ling and Ma Shu also came. Although there were not many people, they also seemed very festive and lively.

Xu Yun became Yuan Hong's bridesmaid, and the best man was Bai Jie's childhood friend.

The entire wedding process is actually not complicated. The humorous and witty emcee proceeds one by one according to the process discussed in advance.

After Bai Jie's father spoke and blessings on behalf of the man's family, it was Yuan Hong's mother's turn to speak on behalf of the woman's family. Yuan Hong's mother is a university teacher. She is very eloquent and has a passionate speech and is deeply touching.

Yuan Hong’s mother’s speech is as follows: Today is the day for my youngest daughter Yuan Hong and Bai Jie to be happy.

Before I express my blessings to my daughter and Sn in law, I want to tell you a romantic story I have heard by chance: A boy asked a girl: I want to ask you something?The girl asked: What's the matter?The boy said: Is it okay to play a show with me?The girl then asked: What to play?The boy said: Play my wife.

How long will it take to act?The girl asked.

lifetime.The boy replied.

Seventy years later, a white-haired old lady stroked the old man on the hospital bed with her vicissitudes of life and sighed: How wonderful it would be if this scene never ended!The old man comforted the old lady: Old lady, I want to ask you something?The old lady asked: What's the matter?The old man said: Is it okay to act in a sequel with me in the next life?When Yuan Hong's mother said this, there was a burst of warm applause from the audience.

After a moment of pause, Yuan Hong's mother continued.

As a mother, I am happy and happy for Yuan Hong when I see my beloved daughter grow up and have her own small family.

When the child grows up, she has the social responsibility she should bear. Starting a family and continuing the family line is their social obligation.

So, on this happy day, I want to wish my daughter and Sn in law to hold hands, grow old together with you, and be in harmony for a hundred years and forever!Of course, in addition to blessings, I would like to give some advice to my daughter and sn in law: First of all, marriage is not a simple 1+12, I personally think it should be 0.

5+ 0。

5 1 More vivid.

So after getting married, the couple must work hard to get rid of half of their personality and be mentally prepared to make compromises and concessions so that they can form a harmonious family.

Today's young men and women are often attracted by the other party's sharpness at first, but they are also prone to being injured by the other party's sharpness.

So my suggestion is that you must learn to restrain your own sharpness and tolerate each other's sharpness, so that you can have space for peace. This is the secret to mutual affection and long-lasting love.

Secondly, love needs air and nutrients. Without the necessary living conditions, love will wither and wither.

So after marriage, young people may have their own social circles. Sometimes both husband and wife need to keep a certain amount of private space, which makes each other more attractive.

Taking a step back, the vast sky is wide open, and while giving the other person space, it also gives yourself freedom.

Therefore, marriage is not mutual possession, but union.

The so-called union is that both parties have a dominant position, just like an alliance, jointly operating a basic social unit family composed of the joint efforts of both parties.

Finally, the family is the harbor where society in life belongs to individuals.

Home is not a place for reasoning, nor is it a place for calculating. Home is a place for love, and warmth and warmth should be the main attributes of home.

If a man is compared to mud and a woman is compared to water, then the combination of men and women is nothing more than mud.

Marriage is a life of two people. If you study the law and righteousness in everything, you will lose your feelings.

When family in life is less emotional and more rational, it will eventually make both parties very hard and tired.

As a separate individual, people are independent in character, but their social attributes determine that people do not exist in isolation in society. Therefore, people cannot simply pursue the so-called pure self that belongs only to themselves. When an individual person is separated from this society and does not have a happy marriage and family as the basis, even if he realizes all his personal self-worth, he can only admire himself in the end; no one shares it, this is destined to be a tragic thing.

This may be what people often say: Everyone is for me, and I am for everyone.The truth.

Therefore, I hope that Yuan Hong and Bai Jie will be good at being children yesterday, and today and tomorrow we will be good at being wives, husbands and parents.

The road ahead is long, I hope they can support each other, help each other, respect each other, and love each other, and go smoothly along the way.

Thank you everyone!

Yuan Hong's mother's speech once again won warm applause from all the guests below the audience.

Ding Ling, Ma Shu and bridesmaid Xu Yun all shed tears of emotion after listening to it. Although their nerves were different when they were touched, Yuan Hong's mother clearly explained the relationship between women, marriage and society as a person who had experienced it. At first glance, it seemed like she was talking about some big truths, but after listening carefully, she knew that it was a summary of her life experience, which was sincere and sincere, which benefited a lot.

This part of the wedding is indeed very touching, like a warm current flowing into the psychology of these young women.

The wedding process continued. After the witness said some advice and congratulations, the banquet started, with guests all over the place, and the cups were filled, which was very lively.

People who like to drink drink, and people who don’t like to drink start watching wonderful small and artistic programs after dinner. Before the show started, the host was not out of the ordinary and asked the bride and Sina to perform a traditional program for everyone.

Traditional programs have the longest history, so there must be a reason.

The host asked Bai Jie and Yuan Hong to perform an apple-eating game for everyone. This game consists of a newcomer eating an apple together and kissing in public after eating it.

The advantage of this game is that the host can completely control its rhythm, which can be fast or slow. Bai Jie cooperated very well with a little alcoholism, and performed very devotedly and enthusiastically, which won everyone's applause.

The atmosphere of the scene is very lively and festive.

Yuan Hong's wedding ceremony finally ended, the process was complete and warm, and everyone was happy.

Perhaps because of the coming of the Spring Festival, the pace of work has slowed down significantly.

After Yuan Hong's wedding, she and her husband went directly to Sanya, Hainan for a honeymoon.

A happy marriage is usually always enviable, but when she thinks of Li Li’s relationship, it is difficult for Ma Shu to associate herself, Li Li, and marriage with desire.

During the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, men often use love more exclusively than women, and Li Li is the same.

During his interactions with Li Li, Ma Shu knew that Li Li had almost never asked or restricted him.

Once Ma Shu really decided something, Li Li had no strength to restrain her.

In Ma Shu's subconscious, she always believed that the relationship between Li Li and her was not the whole of her feelings, or rather, she felt that she loved him and did not love him to that extent.

Ma Shu and Li Li have been sure that the relationship between men and women is not short, but Ma Shu never thought about getting married. She felt that her love for him was not so strong that she was eager to marry him.

To a large extent, Li Li used Ma Shu as a long-term spare tire. Ma Shu did not leave him. It should be that she had not met a man who was attractive enough.

Of course, Ma Shu himself knew very well that his relationship with John was that Zhou Yu was willing to fight Huang Gai and the other was willing to be beaten, and each one was willing to take what he needed.

In Mashu's values, strong vanity stimulates her desire to make a name for herself from time to time. She will not allow her marriage to make her lose herself, and she cannot allow herself to become an affiliation behind a mediocre man.

Therefore, marriage seems very far away to Ma Shu. Li Li doesn't understand Ma Shu's true thoughts. If he really understands it, he doesn't know how it will be.

Yuan Hong's wedding was like a mirror. From the mirror, Ma Shu seemed to see Li Li's desire for marriage, which made Ma Shu very uneasy.

Yuan Hong's mother's blessings at Yuan Hong's wedding and the explanation of how to manage marriage also deeply touched Ma Shu, but Ma Shu seemed to be unable to face Li Li and her marriage. Apart from being far away, she seemed to have a vague feeling in her heart. Marriage must not be her whole, and she doesn't seem to pursue marriage.

When a person's view of marriage is distorted, marriage, which was originally a sacred social relationship between men and women, may be transformed into a play and be trampled on by human beings.

Ding Ling was deeply impressed by occasionally thinking about the scenes at Yuan Hong’s wedding and what Yuan Hong’s mother said.

Marriage is like a besieged city. People in the city want to go out, and people outside the city want to come in. Although not everyone in the city or people outside the city thinks that way, at least a large number of people are in that situation.

In Ding Ling's opinion, she has now deeply realized that marriage is a dynamic relationship between husband and wife, not a cold and long-term contract.

Because it is dynamic or vivid, marriage requires both husband and wife to manage and care, and inject the sunshine, moisture, air and other elements needed to maintain the marriage with sustained vitality. Only in this way can the marriage be vivid and beautiful.

Unfortunately, in reality, people are busy dealing with the daily needs of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea and life trivial matters, and ignore some basic elements of maintaining marriage. Some marriages invisibly begin to wither...