Chapter 2002 Marry her as your wife

Bill Gates told his children that if you can think about problems one step ahead, when others are still worried about the difficulties in front of you, you are already thinking about how to move the next step, and success will definitely belong to you.

In the 1970s, computers were definitely rare for people at that time, but Bill Gates had already dared to get involved in this industry at that time, and he did not only stay in the fantasy stage. Not only did he see a bright future ahead of others, but he also took action ahead of others, so Microsoft's success later.

Opportunities are equal to everyone, but why can’t many people capture them?

Just like hunting, after the waiting prey appears, why do some people let their prey slip away quietly as if they didn't see anything?

Discovering opportunities is important, and seizing opportunities is even more important. This requires us to be prepared to discover and seize opportunities first.

If you are just waiting, then you will never be able to succeed. If you are ready in advance, then when the opportunity arises, you can seize it and realize your dream smoothly.

There is a fable: Three people were walking together, and one of them suddenly found a shining gold coin in front of him, and his eyes suddenly became scattered. Almost at the same time, the other person shouted: Gold coin, and before he finished speaking, the third person had already leaned over and picked up the gold coin in his hand.

This story tells us that in the face of opportunities, faster eyes and faster mouths are better than quick hands.

Everyone has eyes to discover opportunities, but not everyone has taken practical actions ahead of others.

If you don’t take action and just stand outside the door of opportunity, the door to success will never open to you.

Opportunities are fleeting things. When opportunities are not yet here, the best way is to wait and be well prepared for the opportunity to come.

This kind of waiting is like a full bow and arrow. Once you find the target, you can move forward at full speed and reach the final point of your dream.

We must always be one step ahead. On the one hand, we must do more comprehensively in preparation than others. Only in this way can we have enough capital to compete with others for the upcoming opportunities. On the other hand, when opportunities come, we must have eyes to be good at discovering opportunities. In addition, it is crucial to take active actions.

On the road to success, do these triple jumps well, take a little more than others in every step, and the final results will definitely be a little more than others.

The next step is to think about it when facing opportunities and do it immediately. Before doing something, a lot of preliminary preparations must be required. However, if you want to wait until the conditions are complete before starting to take action, you may never start, because there will always be some things that are not prepared enough, or you miss the opportunity, or the competition is too fierce.

There is no perfect start time in the real world. You must act when the problem arises. As long as you think about it, do it immediately. Action quickly is much more valuable than staying in the air.

It doesn’t matter how your thoughts are, because no matter how good your thoughts are, they are based on actions.

A perfect idea that only has value after it is executed.

A good time is not something you can wait for, but is created through actual actions. If you have an idea that you think is really good, then do something for him. If you don’t act, then this idea will never be realized.

People are used to delaying their work a step back and are always willing to let themselves enjoy the final comfort before taking action.

I just want to continue to enjoy it after resting, so that the time limit is over and the action has not started. As a result, the delay directly leads to the failure of the action.

There is a well-known philosopher in India who is born with a special literary temperament. I don’t know how many women have fascinated.

One day, a woman came knocking on the door and she said: Let me be your wife!If you miss me, you will never find a woman who loves you more than I do!Although the philosopher liked her very much, he still replied: Let me consider it!

Afterwards, the philosopher used his consistent spirit of studying science to list the good and bad of getting married or not, and then he found that the good and bad were equal, and he really didn't know how to make a decision.

So he fell into long-term troubles, and no matter what new reasons he found, it was just a difficult choice.

Finally, he came to the conclusion that when a person faces a choice but cannot make a choice, he should choose the one he has not experienced yet.

I know the situation of not getting married, but I don’t know what the situation will be like when getting married. Yes, I should agree to that woman’s begging.

The philosopher came to a woman's home and asked her parents: Where is your daughter?Please tell her that I have considered it clearly and I decided to marry her!

The woman's father replied coldly: You are ten years late, and my daughter is now the mother of three children!

When a philosopher passed away, he left a proverb: You cannot hesitate in life. Just do it after thinking about it, so that you can have no regrets in life.

Do it after thinking about it, not to do things arbitrary, but to take actions based on being confident in one's own strength.

Develop the habit of acting immediately, that is, the habit of putting your thoughts into action immediately.

Adapting to objective laws, plus subjective efforts, and striving to gain benefits from risks is a necessary psychological quality for successful people.

Everyone has colorful ideals and aspirations for the future. If all this becomes reality, then the only way is to stand up and act immediately.

Don’t blame yourself for not being prepared enough. Life is a big stage. All the experiences and lessons you need can teach you. What you need to do is to act immediately after thinking about it, have ideals but not realize them, and have plans but not intellectual. In the end, all kinds of longings, ideals and plans will be shattered.

It's Ah. Zhao Desan feels that what he is facing now is an opportunity that is suddenly in front of him. This opportunity is not just about opening the door to him alone, because the director of the district party committee development office must have opened his eyes wide and was doing activities behind him, striving to take the deal. His current advantage is that the leaders in the district basically have no other objections to Sister Wu's proposal. At this time, he must seize the opportunity, take practical actions, and win this opportunity in one fell swoop.

What he needs to do one step ahead of others is to find Deputy Secretary Liu, and the Executive Deputy Secretary of the Municipal Party Committee stands on his side, so this is inevitable.

right!

Taking action immediately, Zhao Desan was finally inspired and decided not to think about the outcome. Only after a confidant took action can he know what the outcome was.

After making up this decision, he called Biaozi before getting off work in the afternoon and asked Biaozi to pick him up at the door of the unit. More than ten minutes before getting off work, Zhao Desan left the unit early and asked Biaozi to drive him to the city.

After arriving in the city, Zhao Desan's first thing was not to go straight to Deputy Secretary Liu's house, but asked Biaozi to drive him to the store where he bought jade cabbage for Sister Wu last time. He wandered around the store. He originally had a pair of jade bracelets, but he felt that Sister Wu had already given jade products. If he gave this thing, it would seem to be innovating. After thinking about it, Zhao Desan simply spent tens of thousands of yuan to buy a women's brand watch for the waiter to pack it. Then he got into the car and asked Biaozi to drive him to the house of Liu Xuemei, the executive deputy secretary of the municipal party committee, the second destination.

Liu Xuemei's home is not in the municipal party committee's family district, but in a villa area on the outskirts of the city.

When Biaozi asked Zhao Desan to drive the car to the villa area, Biaozi couldn't help but widen his eyes. Looking at this high-end luxury villa, he couldn't help but ask Zhao Desan: Brother, why are you here for Ah?

Zhao Desan said: Find a leader, you are waiting for me in the car.As he spoke, Zhao Desan got out of the car with the watch in his hand and quickly walked towards the villa at Deputy Secretary Liu's house.

Biaozi couldn't help but sigh: Being a leader is a good thing, living in such a good house!When I have money, I will buy such a house for my mother!

Since he followed Wu Min to Deputy Secretary Liu's house once last time, Zhao Desan came to Deputy Secretary Liu's house with ease this time. He stood at the door to calm down, and a warm smile appeared on his face before ringing the doorbell.

After the doorbell rang a few times, the living room door was gently opened, and the nanny, young man, who are you looking for?The nanny asked at Zhao Desan with a kind face.

Auntie, I'll find Deputy Secretary Liu. Has she come home from get off work?Zhao Desan replied politely to the nanny.

I'm back, does Deputy Secretary Liu know?asked the nanny aunt.

Zhao Desan said with a smile: I visited Deputy Secretary Liu last time, and she knew me.Zhao Desan wants to enter the house first.

The nanny said: Then wait a moment, I'll talk to Deputy Secretary Liu.As he spoke, the door was closed again.

Zhao Desan stood at the door and looked around and started to wait. After about three minutes, the living room door opened again. This time, the door not only opened a gap, but was completely open. The nanny stood aside and said: Deputy Secretary Liu asked you to come in.

Zhao Desan smiled politely and nodded to the nanny, and walked into Liu Xuemei's home nervously. However, after standing in the living room downstairs and looking around, Zhao Desan did not see Deputy Secretary Liu. The living room was empty, with only a snow-white Samo sleeping on a European leather sofa. Last time, Zhao Desan did not pay attention to the decoration of Liu Xuemei's home. This time he found that Liu Xuemei's home was really magnificent. The whole decoration style was European, and the decoration was very high and magnificent, just like a European-style palace.

After the nanny closed the door and walked over, Zhao Desan asked her with a smile: Auntie, where is Deputy Secretary Liu?

In the gym upstairs, you go up, she is waiting for you inside.The nanny aunt pointed upstairs with a smile.

So Zhao Desan walked upstairs along the white marble carved stairs and came to the door of the gym where he saw Liu Xuemei for the first time. When he saw Deputy Secretary Liu again, he couldn't help but his eyes shine because he saw a completely different image of the city party committee. At this time, Deputy Secretary Liu took off his elegant and dignified outfit and replaced it with a black tight ultra-short elastic fitness suit on his upper body, and a pair of black seven-point black elastic fitness pants underneath. Because the fitness suit is full of elasticity, wearing a body shape will be completely completed when worn.It is fully presented. Liu Xuemei, who is wearing an elastic fitness suit, is a woman in her forties. Her figure is not only slightly plump than the young girl, but she still maintains a very hot body. Her front and back are bulging, her breasts and fat buttocks are not like a woman in her forties at all. Her long hair is tied into a ponytail, leaving a blank area between the upper and lower body fitness suits, perfectly showing the slender bee waist, the snow-white and smooth waist, and the white and flawless neck are already full of sweat due to intense exercise.

At this time, Liu Xuemei had just gotten off the treadmill and started to shake the hula hoop again. Her two slender and straight legs spread slightly apart, her arms raised, and her exposed waist quickly shaking at 360 degrees. A hula hoop was rotating just like her snow-white waist. The waist seemed extremely soft when shaking, giving people a feeling of bonelessness, which made Zhao Desan stand outside the door and look straight, completely shocked. It turned out that the dynamic beauty of a woman when she exercised was far more heart-warming than that charming and charming posture.